We are all inlove. It may not be with a specific someone, but each and everyone of us is inlove with maybe, family, job, friends, craft, talent or special someone. Everyone deserves the feeling of being in love. And each and everyone of us should accept the fact that in being inlove, we should also be ready to get hurt and accept each other's differences.
When I met Jay, I was a total maarte,kikay and notice-me-dahil-makulay-ang-face-ko type of girl. I should be, I sacrificed my savings and spent it to make up school and case-full of pampaarte because I have always been inlove with make up. When Jay and I got together, it wasn't an issue at first. Then he started telling me that he likes me more when I practice simplicity. Meaning, no make up at all. I followed him at first because I wanted to please him. Then suddenly I felt that I am losing some part of me. Gradually, I learned wearing a bit of here and there make up each day. I told him that I'm a pro, it's a must especially if I do weddings, and it's also a must at work because I look like a 16-year old when my face is bare and if I don't dress up. Then I noticed him gradually accepting what I want. I agreed with him when he said that I can wear make up, but without blush. He said that I look best with neutral eye make up and natural red lipstick. Then one day I heard him suggested, "pwede bang mag make up ka na eyes lang yung nakafocus. Yung pag tumingin sayo, sa eyes mo lang mapapatingin". I was shocked. But I was secretly smiling and replied, "smokey ba?" Hahaha this is it!
That's how love works for the two of us. He likes some stuff that I don't like or I am not keen on, but we try to make sure to meet half way. I just learned that it's not everything about being alike all the time. Understanding and respecting each other's interest is the best thing I can offer to him and to our relationship.
And because I love you and nothing means more to me than seeing you happy, 2nd of March is a date. Yes, we are watching Foo Fighters concert together! =)
Thank you for supporting my craft, thank you for telling me that I look pretty and gorgeous and thank you for all the sweet patawa jokes you make in public =) I love you Moony!
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